Wow, it must be six weeks since we last had this pissing match!
Being able or unable to drive a manual does not in any way make someone good, bad, educated, uneducated and in now way does it indicate their inherent worth whatsoever.
I fail to see why people seem to think learning to drive a manual is in anyway harder than learning to driver period. I grew up in a country where outside of high end luxury sedans auto's didn't really exist. Neither myself or any one I knew thought learning to drive a manual was hard. You jumped in the car, got told how to press the clutch, engage gear, release the clutch and drive off. Once rolling the hard part of learning to drive a car started. Spatial awareness, closing speeds, feedback, feel, car placement, observing other vehicles and people around you. Learning to drive manual is a complete non-issue that baffles me over here.
Having grown up in that environment meant that I didn't understand why anyone with all four limbs would want to drive an auto. That was more to do with the fact that in England in the 80's a 2.0L 4cyl car with 80 hp was considered more than adequate for most cars. The inefficient (mainly) 3 speed autos of the day sucked so so bad they made what in retrospect where already snail pace cars unable to get out of their own way. Have you ever seen a car hit itself up the ass it's going so slow? Go and drive a 1,000cc 70's era Mini with a four speed auto and 40hp, then we can talk about how crappy autos are, or were.
Then I moved here in 1994. Looking for cars I went to see a Calloway Corvette that was sale locally for only $25K, but passed on it because 'Auto' What a dumbass. Having driven many C4 Corvettes with auto's since then I honestly think the L98 is better suited to an auto than either the Doug Nash 4+3 or the ZF 6 speed. Those cars with their massive low end torque and relatively lower power, all way way low in the rev range is an honest riot to drive with the 4 speed auto. Really, it's a better car. That was the start of my conversion.
These days auto's can be really really really good. As power and torque increase, plus driveline efficiency increases auto's just get better and better. As others have said, I wouldn't want to drive a 500, 600, 700hp car fast with a manual, I'm just not that good. Also the more torque you are trying to handle the heavier the clutch effort even with assistance. I hated the 'King Cobra' HD clutch in my old Mustang and only had it in there for a few months before going back to a lighter standard 96 Cobra clutch in my Supercharged 94. Not as strong, but much easier to drive. Also for SUV's I just don't see the point of a manual. Your far less likely to want to barrel into a corner hard on the brakes with a quick 3-2 heal and tow downshift, plus for towing Autos are great.
For a weekend toy, dedicated track car, occasional blaster or short distance plaything three pedals may still be king. I drove the auto version of my C30 before ordering the manual as no manuals existed to test. That was a god awful experience for that particular car. But more and more cars are better and better with auto's. For something where you are going to be sitting in traffic commuting, i don't ever think I'll go back to three pedals. For anything over 500hp I'm not a good enough driver to track it with manual I don't believe. I don't think I'm suddenly a lesser person in car guy terms because I now own and drive auto's much of the time.
YEs I loved being hard on the brakes and heal towing into the two roundabouts on my way to work this morning as it was quiet int he Volvo, but i also love barreling into those same two roundabouts in my (shock, horror, confiscate his man car) automatic Boxster when I drive that.
Drive what makes you happy, but don't judge or denigrate someone else for coming to a different conclusion when faced with the same set of wants/needs as you.
Kum-ba-yah motherberkeleyers.