I personally hate the sound of Flowmasters, however having said that, there were some Flowmaster Fox body kits that sounded pretty awesome.
Dynomax makes some not too expensive stuff that I like a lot.
Magnaflow makes some really high quality stuff (and you'll pay for it) but I get the impression they put more emphasis on quality materials and a really great sound, and they forgot that people actually ride IN vehicles, and controlling drone is a thing. I get half deaf after driving my Van with a Magnaflow, but I will admit, it has the perfect sound outside.
I'll admit if I'm wrong, but I disagree with those who say to put the muffler or resonator as close to the engine as possible. Acoustically speaking (on a cross-plane V8, anyway) you want the muffler at around 2/3rds the total length, and a resonator (if added) as close to the tailpipe exit as you can. The reason is the overtone series, which is a ratio of total wavelength divided by halves, thirds, and sixths. Ever slap your hand over the end of a tube and it makes a tone? Ever notice that if you slap the tube versus leaving your hand on the end after you slap it, the tone it produces is an octave lower? The tube makes a tone based on the pressure wave your hand gives it. Removing your hand allows the column of air to dissipate its energy in both directions. Leaving your hand there forces it to only expel its energy out one end. It has effectively selected to only let you hear the lower octave from the other end, instead of hearing both from the near end. Your engine does the same thing when the exhaust valve opens and closes. It spits a pulse and then slams the one end shut.
The thing about standing waves and overtone series is that each division (halves, thirds, sixths) are attenuated at each interval. The strongest overtone will be the first octave, but the following 2/3 overtone is much quieter. By putting the muffler at the 2/3rds, you're effectively preventing the half (octave) wave, and placing the less-strong 2/3rds wave in the muffler. By adding a resonator, you're effectively splitting the rear third of the exhaust into another 2/3 (or 1/6th the whole length)
The other reason I don't like putting a muffler close to the engine on a V8 is because of the highly variable pulses and frequencies the engine can create. It's one thing on a 4-cylinder when you have four even pulses. On a V8 you get 1-5-4-2-6-3-7-8, which makes it L, L, R, R, R, L, L, R. The range of frequencies it can create WAY more craziness than a 4-pot.
The other big reason I like to leave some space to the muffler is because whatever frequencies DO make it through the muffler are now introduced to a whole additional tube, which can generate their own standing waves and overtones. I let the exhaust make its noise, then muffle it near the end.
Another way to sculpt things is by using an X or H pipe. That uneven distribution of exhaust pulses in the manifolds causes wild variations in exhaust pressures. Adding a crossover pipe allows the extra pressures from one side bleed to the other, and vice versa.
If you're going for quiet, I'll echo the Walker Super Turbos. They're good, cheap, and relatively quiet with a nice sound. I would use them on a stock 302, but if you're building a really hot one, they'll be restrictive.
I'm sure you already know this, but bigger diameter is louder, and it's fine to step down one size after the muffler. There is enough cooling in the tubing that the exhaust volume is reduced. In some applications, it can actually help by being a better velocity match. Straight through mufflers are also typically louder than offset. I also agree with whoever said this above... if the internet says 3", do a 2.5". The internet likes to base it on max hp, and a 2.5" might cost you 10hp at WOT and redline, but at least you'll be less angry at your life choices after a nice drive.
Example: I'm building a 550-hp LS. If I were racing it, it would get dual 3" that dump in front of the axle. I'm not, so it's getting a full 2.5" out the back. I would rather have 540hp and not be deaf when I get to my destination.