I forgot to update this:
trans seems to be working ok. It was leaking from the kickdown seal so I put a different oring in and a washer to help and that seems to have stopped it. I ordered the correct seal and will replace it soon just to have the correct part in there
the pan gasket was leaking so I tightened the bolts and that seems to have stopped it.
it does have a slow mystery leak, which drives me nutty but for now I'll live with it. Because....
I fear I might have an issue with it but wanted to try and describe it here for some feedback.
I don't have much experience with older automatics but the little I have makes me think something is amiss. Also, no tach so I'm guessing on rpms
it doesn't seem to have definitive up shifts most of the time. Sometimes yes, but they are getting less frequent.
I'll be driving light throttle and it will feel like it's getting past the point where it should shift. Maybe 2500-3000. I lift and sometimes it shifts sometimes not. Sometimes it's a super long shift that you almost can't discern.
if I'm holding in first (probably second as well but can't say for sure) and it's not shifting, I can usually lift and the engine will drop to idle. Give it gas and it revs back up and the trans engages at the same point it just dropped from.
I thought it was low fluid but I checked (car hot, idling in park on flat ground) and it seemed ok. Hard to tell because there wasn't a super definitive line. But it was registering for sure.
I figured what the heck and dropped another 3/4 quart in.
the next drive (my wife took it out) it was leaking quite a bit more from the top of the tranny probably in the rear. I assume it was the vent.
finally, the kickdown is not connected because I don't have the proper bracket on the carb. (We are putting a used fitech on soon so I'll hook it up then). I've heard of guys never running them and having no issues but maybe they are the same guys who have 250k miles on $10 shocks with "no issues" either.
I know this isn't ideal, but does this seem to describe an obvious issue or could all of this be normal?
it engages drive and reverse nice and solid. I just don't know enough about these old autos to know!