Awesome. Should we ever meet in person, I owe you guys a beer.
Chief points as I understand them-
Don't waste time with overpriced cars.
Do NOT nitpick the car-
Don't directly discuss the car at first, discuss the owner
Use respectful phrasing of offers- "I can afford to pay X" instead of "I think the car is worth X"
Have cash in hand, and only what you're willing to pay.
When making lower offers, do so quickly and politely, then leave contact info, then just plain leave.
Make transactions as painless as possible for the buyer-I don't have a trailer to show up with, but I'll do my best.
People get attached to thier cars and want them to go to good homes, so don't let them know if you intend to strip/sell/destroy the car.
What's best practice for inspecting a car as far as the buyer/seller relationship goes?
I ask, because the last two cars I bought, I should have scrutinized the wee out of. This goes triple for a nice car I want to buy. Before dropping, say, 3 or 5K, I want the car in the air so I can inspect it, I want to go over the engine very well, possibly involving oil and compression gauges, and generally, I want to throw the seller's estimation of value out the window, because, frankly, people lie like rugs, and they usually are trying to sell a problem.
For the record, my car buying history thus far,
69 Dart, looked nice, paid 800, frame was rotten, car was unsafe, should have paid 300, which is what the guy I bought it from paid for it.
97? Neon 2dr stick- paid 1200 for a car with bad paint, turned out to have a blown headgasket. Once I fixed THAT, it turned out to have knocking rods. Sold it for 1K, fortunately I was selling during the gas crunch.
86 GTI- Like the Dart, it had BRG paint, and looked nice. Paid 800, if I remember. Car never ran, was rust rotted, put a bunch of time and effort into it and got nowhere, finally sent it to the scrapper for 300.
The big constant in all three of those crummy deals was that I simply didn't examine the car hard enough every time. Also, I'm a sucker for British Racing Green. If I'd examined the Dart properly, I'd have offered 300, or just passed, same with the Golf, and same with the Neon. They all looked okay at a glance, but I should have dug into them a bit more.
Next thing I spend money on, you best believe I'm going over it with a fine tooth comb. I don't need to browbeat a seller with every little flaw I find, but I sure as hell want to be aware of them while I deal. But what's the smartest way to go about this in the middle of a deal? It's painless for the seller if I show up with a trailer, fork over money, and disappear in 10 minutes, but it ain't so good for me.