tuna55 wrote:
SVreX: I appreciate your experience here. I think the biggest issue is that we lack homeschool space. Our sleeping arrangements, well the kids anyway, is working fine. The three sharing a room is not troublesome. The issues are that my bedroom is also the sewing/homeschool prep room. The kitchen is also the homeschool library (for assignments and handed in papers and such). The dining room is also a classroom and a violin room (Tunawife teaches many lessons on the side). The family/living room is also a play room and also a group activity room. We have trouble finding places for everyone to sit during the day to do solo work, and finding a place for everyone to gather to hear a story, or whatever, without being distracted by the inevitable 'other stuff' in the house.
There is not a single thing you have listed that is at all different for our homeschooling environment. Literally. Every single thing is the same. It has been that way for the 22 years we have been homeschooling.
Well, OK, my wife doesn't play the violin. But she does run a business, as do I, and she teaches piano, tutors, and group teaches in our home.
At one point we had students working in five different grade levels from kindergarten to HS senior.
Yes, our kitchen table is our school workspace, and sewing assembly table, and project construction workbench, and dinner table, and web business office, and construction company office. Every single day.
Yes, the DR is our music room, and project display area, and game room. Every day.
Yes, my wife and I still sleep in the foyer, and she sometimes brings her computer to bed to do work (sad face).
Yes, private space is at a premium. Sometimes my son writes papers in the bathroom.
But the 2 who have graduated are both doing really well (1 maintained a 4.0 average and earned her Masters from GA Tech, the other will be filming at LeMans this year), and the 3 still at home are not doing badly either.
I'm not telling you what to do, but don't think space will solve homeschooling chaos. It's part of the package. As a long time President of 2 homeschool associations, I can tell you that I have been in the homes of hundreds of homeschool families, and you are not alone. I have NEVER been in a homeschool home that was organized, neat, or had enough space, no matter how large. You are not alone.
It's kind of part of the package. Convoluted and chaotic environments breed creative and intimate learning environments, and I have seen many, many families do very well in such non-traditional environments. It's not for everyone, but it can work well for some.
It would be easy for me to think that my youngest daughter would have done better in school with some decent private workspace. But I forget she would not have learned to work through problems with her brothers, or learned to focus when there is a lot of noise and distractions around. She would not have learned critical thinking from people more advanced than she is. She has become an excellent student in spite of the challenges.
So, consider your needs, and by all means go for them. But don't sell yourself short and measure your success by the stuff, instead of by the fruit. I guarantee there are a few things that are advantages right now that you will no longer have in a "better" house.