Wow. First of all thank you all for the outpouring of understanding, advice, comments and anecdotes. I really appreciate it, and just hearing something back from someone outside my immediate friends and family group is a big mental health help, wea especially, I really appreciate it.
On the weed, I only mentioned it from a hiring test POV. I'm a fully function human, not a Cheech and Chong stoner. I'm most certainly not baked 24/7 as someone stated. Personal use hasn't stopped me working, getting patents, building things, renovating houses, physically excer3cising etc for the past decade. I have left the sate, and country, for weeks at a time and not touched the stuff. I use it for a number of reasons. I've never been asked for a drug test, let alone failed one, but because it can be a hot button topic, see baked 24/7 above.
Interesting feedback on the ride share, and I've just had that backed up. I'd forgotten the son of some friends did Uber Black for a while, this was a few years ago when they were still expanding, and fighting various legal battles with different cities and countries. My wife reminded me and reached out. He kinda reinforced what every one said here. He also commented at over the course of about a year, every few months he ended up getting less and less per mile. He concentrated on surge times, especially Friday, Saturday nights, holidays, parties etc. He said at first Uber were great about problem passengers and people throwing up (in a then brand new Navigator), he'd send in the proof and cleaning fee, and everything would instantly get reimbursed. Then it started taking longer, less things were covered, then less of each claim was covered. HE said it was barely worth it, even ignoring vehicle wear and tear.
Before talking about the handyman thing, I wanted to comment on the auto mechanic question. I don't want to do that. 20 years ago if you offered me the chance to work on a house project Vs a car project, it would be the car all day long. But I've grown tired of that. I posted here about three years ago that I was done with working on DD's, toys only as I just didn't get the buzz anymore. Also, I'm an OK mechanic. Sure I'm the knowledgeable, experienced guy in the real world, but I don't consider myself as good as all the other GRM peeps I know locally. I am far happier, and more confident in my DIY over wrenching abilities.
I'm really interested in the feedback on the handyman stuff, especially what TravisTheHuman said about Xper hour. That is how I've operated up until now. I started with $50/hr friends and family, and I've told them to tell others $70/hr, although I haven't done anything other than my immediate circle. I'm certainly happy with hanging TV's, unclogging sinkers, repair drywall, installing appliances etc. especially if that's what people have the hardest time getting people to come out for. I'd like some more feedback on what people know of as hourly rates if possible. The work I've done so far is things like installing a mail box. Building fences, replacing faucets, preventing critters from getting into houses, smoke detectors, drywall/plaster repair and painting, some yard clean up (the biggest back killer) etc. That has all been at the $50/hr. I was asked to quote replacing someone's kitchen floor with cheap laminate. They wanted a fixed price, so I calculated how long I figured it would take in hours, multiplied by the $70/hr rate, rounded down to the nearest $50 and gave them that. I figured that even if it took longer, I'd still be at my $50/hr rate. Silence, even though I had done several little per hour jobs previously. Honestly I think I'd be happier bouncing around the local area doing many small jobs, than taking on a large project for someone. That gives the added benefit of being able to take a couple of days off for my back to recover if needed. That's better than leaving someone in the lurch part way through a large job. Also, having our own house and two rentals means I have most things I need, and anything I don't have, someone in my close social circle does.
I do have a question on insurance/bonding. My guess is most handymen don't have any, and are just rolling the dice. I'm certainly not certified in any way. And while I do these things for myself I think I'd turn down any electrical beyond smoke sensors and change out a socket or switch. Same with plumbing, I'll fix your faucet, under sink, or toilet cistern, but I'd turn down replacing a hot water heater, sewage etc. Even though I have and do, do that stuff myself. Thoughts? Advice?
Thanks all for the help.