Ok, so let's consider the idea for a minute that Robert E Lee should not be in public places. I wish it meant we needed to take down a few statues...
Leesburg, Leesville, Lee County- there are hundreds of places named Lee. Virtually every city south of the Mason Dixon line has a Lee St (and many in the North).
If we adopt the idea that Lee should be erased, it would ultimately be pushed at a broad level, and the pressure would be put on hundreds of local municipalities to make the changes. These would be unfunded mandates, the cost and complexity of which would have to be born at the local level.
Street signs are paid for with public funds. So are every piece of stationary, truck, ID tag, city park, courtroom, etc, etc.
No, I absolutely don't think it should be defined in monetary terms. There are things more important than money.
However, it really does have the potential to grow into a rather grand witch hunt. We can't even agree in this thread whether Lee was a good guy or a bad guy. There are communities that would not be able to make the switch in a timely manner.
I live in Leesburg, GA. In Lee County, GA. If the good people of Leesburg make the decision that it would be wise to change their name, I'm all for it. I'd like to see it. In fact, I think it would bring some very positive attention to a community that needs it. But I don't think outsiders should pressure them to do it.
At the core, I'd rather not judge people. When I have an opinion that something is wrong, I voice that opinion strongly. I do not, however, force my opinions on others. I am vocal, but I am content to accept what the community has decided for itself.
I don't think the core concept embraces unity. It forces divisiveness.