To navigate these things and decode them, I usually look for a component that doesn't blend in with the rest of them and use that as a landmark to navigate everything else. For example this single potentiometer circled in blue versus the others which are doubles:
Being a type of resistor it will be labeled with an "R", and on the drawing of the circuit board it should be right in line with the others. Like this:
So the circuit board sketch shows you where that potentiometer is -physically- on the board, and it's name is R15.
Knowing the name of the component, you can scan the schematic to see what the thing is and where it is -electrically-.
Looking for R15 shows up in this blue circle:
Based on the schematic that pot serves as your balance control, and is 1 Megohm in value. In fact I bet it's stamped 1M on the back.
So what I do now that I have a starting point is get the physical board and the drawing for the board in the same orientation in front of me, and you can walk through all the rest of the components in this fashion.
Capacitors (marked with C's) give me a headache still. The reference I use to keep them all straight is here.
If you plan to go through the board and replace components as they are you don't really need to know what they are doing in the circuit. Just desolder the old and solder in new one one at a time.
I hope this makes sense...
**Edit: Your tubes on the schematic (not the circuit board drawing) are in black circles and are labeled with V's (valves) and then the valve type. The tricky part is V1A and V1B are in the same physical glass tube, and are type 12AX7A. This is confusing because the schematic seems to show four tubes, but your player only has three. The other two, V2 and V3, are 50C5's and I'm almost certain I have some in the basement. If not that exact type, I likely have the equivalent. They are yours if you want them.