No way on the Mazda5. Get out of denial.
The real issue is gonna be the cargo space. Have your wife take a look at the space behind the rear space. She won't be able to fit more than her purse in it. That will end this issue.
I think that will also eliminate your stick shift options.
Let's go back to your requirements...
twolittlebroncos wrote:
Our budget is in the $10-20k range, but we would need financing at the top end of the range and I'd rather pay cash if possible. Really struggling to balance out my frugalness with buying a reliable people mover.
Needs to last 10 years and 100,000 miles and not have its repair costs exceed its market value. Bonus points for gas mileage, safety features, stick shifts and diy repairability.
ALL minivans should be expected to last longer than 100K. That's a really low bar.
Gas mileage... they are not too good. Low 20's is normal, unless you look at some of the older units. My 1st gen Odyssey gets 27.
Safety features- largely irrelevant. Most modern vehicles do very well in this category.
That leaves your budget. I think you are discounting the importance of your frugalness. There are PLENTY of reliable people movers for WAAY under $20K. There is no reason to spend this much for reliability, convenience, mileage or safety.
Your frugalness is important to your family. It will set you up for financial success later. Which is more important, a financed newer swaggervan, or some cash to put away for your kid's educations??
I have 5 kids. We have had Suburbans, Volvo wagons, and minivans, among others. You are right to be looking for a minivan. Best tool for the job of people moving. But I would encourage you to lower your budget and further explore your inner cheapskate.
I currently have 2 minivans. I have a 2005 (2nd gen) Mazda MPV with 120K (we bought it with 15K miles on it), and a 1998 (1st gen) Honda Odyssey with 179K (my Dad has had it since it had 50K miles). We've got a combined 17 years and 235K miles of use on them, and have NEVER had a breakdown. Tires and maintenance only.
Do you need more reliability than that?
I have been hunting for 1st gen Odysseys. I'd buy 3 more right now if I could. I could buy 3 very nice ones for less than $10K total, and would expect 75K trouble free miles out of each of them.
For you, I would strongly recommend an ultra clean low mileage 2nd gen MPV below the bottom end of your price range, and a nice dinner for the wife, with a few extra dollars in the kid's college fund.