This would be the same situation at my house. My wife wouldnt want anyone over. I played in bands a bit and totally get "crashing" is important and very normal. Of the people from here I would be less worried about Curtis than others. Some of you could sleep in the garage.
So one night I am walking the dog and meet a man on a bicycle. The kind with lots of bags. A rails-to-trails path passes behind my house, so this is not unusual. He seemed to be looking for something, so I asked if I could help. He said he was looking for a place to eat. Uh oh. Sadly, this time of night, the closest restaurant would have been a significant ride. So I ask where he is coming from and where he is going. He tells me he is from England and is riding across the US to raise awareness for Autism, a condition that he himself lives with. He started at JFK and is headed to LAX. He has been sleeping on the side of the trail and has not bathed in a few days. OK, follow me.
My wife is in the shower and I yell into the bathroom: "honey, I brought an Autistic Englishman home with me for dinner. He is going to crash here, take a shower, and wash his clothes." We heated up leftovers, talked and talked about his adventures, and were not murdered at all. I was honored to be mentioned in his posts about the trip. (https://www.facebook.com/JFKTOLAX/)
pinchvalve (Forum Supporter) said:
So one night I am walking the dog and meet a man on a bicycle. The kind with lots of bags. A rails-to-trails path passes behind my house, so this is not unusual. He seemed to be looking for something, so I asked if I could help. He said he was looking for a place to eat. Uh oh. Sadly, this time of night, the closest restaurant would have been a significant ride. So I ask where he is coming from and where he is going. He tells me he is from England and is riding across the US to raise awareness for Autism, a condition that he himself lives with. He started at JFK and is headed to LAX. He has been sleeping on the side of the trail and has not bathed in a few days. OK, follow me.
My wife is in the shower and I yell into the bathroom: "honey, I brought an Autistic Englishman home with me for dinner. He is going to crash here, take a shower, and wash his clothes." We heated up leftovers, talked and talked about his adventures, and were not murdered at all. I was honored to be mentioned in his posts about the trip. (https://www.facebook.com/JFKTOLAX/)
To me, this is normal. It's how I grew up, we took in a lot of people.
The most recent hurricane, I arrived home from work to find a Stetson University student was going to be staying with us. My wife is the costumer for the theater department. The dorms were being evacuated, and he needed somewhere to stay.
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Dibs on top bunk!
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Way to go! That's how it's done.
pinchvalve (Forum Supporter) said:
So one night I am walking the dog and meet a man on a bicycle. The kind with lots of bags. A rails-to-trails path passes behind my house, so this is not unusual. He seemed to be looking for something, so I asked if I could help. He said he was looking for a place to eat. Uh oh. Sadly, this time of night, the closest restaurant would have been a significant ride. So I ask where he is coming from and where he is going. He tells me he is from England and is riding across the US to raise awareness for Autism, a condition that he himself lives with. He started at JFK and is headed to LAX. He has been sleeping on the side of the trail and has not bathed in a few days. OK, follow me.
My wife is in the shower and I yell into the bathroom: "honey, I brought an Autistic Englishman home with me for dinner. He is going to crash here, take a shower, and wash his clothes." We heated up leftovers, talked and talked about his adventures, and were not murdered at all. I was honored to be mentioned in his posts about the trip. (https://www.facebook.com/JFKTOLAX/)
My nephew was through hiking the Appalachian Trail when the remnants of a hurricane caught him. It had been raining for days and was supposed to continue for another week. He was walking into town when a lady picked him up. She and her husband ended up putting him up for 4 days. They fed him, washed his clothes, and gave him a bed to sleep in. He was extremely thankful, as were his parents.
pinchvalve (Forum Supporter) said:
My wife is in the shower and I yell into the bathroom: "honey, I brought an Autistic Englishman home with me for dinner. He is going to crash here, take a shower, and wash his clothes." We heated up leftovers, talked and talked about his adventures, and were not murdered at all.
... says the autistic Englishman typing on your laptop.
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The tiny Texaco sign is the perfect finishing touch to that scene.