Cliff’s: Had an RX-8 R3. Totaled. Got an E90 M3. Now trying to figure out who the hell I even am any more.
I initially wrote this for a very different audience, but decided to try it here and see what y’all think.
Fair warning: This is long.
Necessary Background:
I had a 2011 RX-8 R3 as an only-car for over four years because that’s how important handling is to me. I’m sure I don’t have to explain that too much in this crowd.
I almost DGAF about straight-line speed or most kinds of comfort. I enjoy them when I have them, but I don’t pursue them. What I want is low, light, agile, responsive, feelsome. But my car is also my family’s only car, so it has to have back seats. When the R3 came out, there was nothing with equal-or-bigger back seats that handled better in stock form or mod-for-mod -- at any price, ever. As far as I can tell, that was still true when I bought it in 2014, and it might still be true now. It fed that hunger while providing just enough space for a rear-facing child seat behind my 5' 6" wife and a stroller in the trunk. Perfect.
I also kind of hate how car buyers drive the industry toward cars that are all about how little they hurt rather than how much joy they bring. Everything is about how high can I sit, how little fuel do I need, how much neglect can I get away with, how much can I be shielded and distracted from what the car is doing, how little can I possibly do behind the wheel and still get where I'm going. The RX-8 is 180 degrees from that. I almost felt like I had to drive one just to plant a flag for what I value.
Of course I also found the car frustrating in a lot of ways, many of them obvious -- though I was hard pressed to admit it, because I had convinced myself that the auto industry never produced anything that suited me better.
Then I lost it in an accident, and figured maybe it was time to test that assumption.
I’ve had this E90 M3 for a little more than a month now. MT, slicktop, no iDrive, no EDC, 18s. With the crash still fresh in my mind, a bunch of drama around the purchase (dealership incompetence), and having to swap to winter tires almost immediately afterward, it's been hard to come to grips with this car. But I think I'm slowly forming some opinions I can trust.
Below: bad news first, then good.
On One Hand...
This really isn't the kind of car I thought I'd be driving. Too heavy, too serious all the time. I don't particularly like the sound of a cross-plane crank V8; the S65’s sound is one of my faves, but I’d prefer a 6. The car is informative enough to the driver, and fairly agile, but not really alive-feeling in the way I'd prefer.
It's not all that great at just loafing around, either. The suspension is firm, the engine is constantly growling at you, and there's no escaping the heavy-machinery feeling. It kind of feels like a very agile freight train.
The gauge cluster sucks compared to the R3's -- by which I mean it's decent whereas the R3's is basically perfect. The voice commands and stereo are also downgrades from the R3's. Especially the stereo. The R3’s Bose system isn’t very good, but it’s almost hi-fi compared to the base BMW Professional crap.
Meanwhile, I can’t help but feel like many of the M3’s talents are at least somewhat wasted on me. I like the power, the interior, and the status, but I'd rather have the RX-8's responsiveness and exploitability, which can't really be replicated with this kind of power and weight.
On The Other Hand...
I know this isn’t going to sound like much of a surprise, but the extent to which it’s true is kind of amazing: the M3 evinces a depth of engineering that the RX-8 could barely gesture at. And most importantly, I don't think there's a stock 4-door car out there that I'd rather have.
One of the things I struggled to admit to myself about the R3 was how stressful it was to drive. The M3 isn’t. The NVH is so much more tolerable, and the power makes it less annoying to lose ground in traffic because there’s no doubt you’ll be able to make up ground when things open up.
At the same time, there’s an oddly good sensation of speed in the M3. That’s one of the things I had thought I’d lose along with the NVH. I’m not quite sure how the M3 retains it, but it does, and I love it for that. I know a lot of people like it when 100 mph feels like 50; I can’t stand that (why on earth would you not want to feel speed??), and I’m really glad this car isn’t like that.
As far as I've pushed it, the M3 handles a lot like a really grown-up and much heavier RX-8. It's less eager-feeling but its behavior and responses are surprisingly similar in most situations. As little as I've driven it near its limits, I suspect that's where the biggest differences are. The M3 seems to have a lot more traction, and doesn't seem to want to yaw as much with wheelspin. It also seems less surgical, less delicately precise. The wider tires don’t help, and I think the diff is slower to react, too. Overall, though, it's almost more impressive in a way. I think the RX-8 owes its talents mainly to the soundness of its fundamentals: low, light, rigid, compact powertrain, really nice suspension setup and geometry. The M3 feels like its handling engineers started with a worse foundation but did a better job. I get the impression that both cars are comparably forgiving and flexible, just in different ways. And stock vs. stock, they're definitely comparably capable.
For how firm the M3’s ride is, the way it soaks up small irregularities is incredible. It’s only a bit more compliant than the R3 over medium and large bumps, but it’s far more compliant over cobblestones and the like. Maybe that’s one reason why it has so much more traction.
Seems to have a lot less wheel hop, too. Like, a lot less. Even at 80k miles with (AFAICT) all original suspension bushings, all I ever get is a little tap-tap-tap in situations where the R3 would have felt like a jackhammer.
At first, I felt like the M3 lacked a bit of steering feedback vs. the RX-8’s overall. Now, I'm pretty convinced that a lot of the feedback in the RX-8 was artificially exaggerated or just straight-up fake. The RX-8's EPS does a really good impression of cornering loads -- until you push it into understeer, where you notice it doesn't lighten up quite as much as it should. The M3's steering doesn't feel quite as alive overall, but its feedback seems a bit more authentic and its gain curve feels more natural. Where it really crushes the RX-8 is just off center. Both cars have a lot of initial gain, but the M3 somehow achieves that without feeling nervous. It just seems to self-center and communicate better in that region. That difference does a lot to make the M3 much less tiring to drive.
The engine is WAY better to use than the RX-8’s, and not just because of the power. The throttle response is much faster (ITBs vs. the RX-8's long intake tract I'm guessing) and infinitely smoother. The RX-8 liked to jerk and buck with throttle modulation, especially at low throttle. The M3's throttle is almost electric-motor linear by comparison.
No point belaboring how much faster the M3 is than the RX-8. The main thing I like about the power is its delivery: a flat torque curve with all the power way up top, safely tucked away for when I want to commit. I didn't ask for this much speed, but if I'm going to have it, this is how I want it: sufficient torque, stratospheric redline, short gearing.
Fuel economy should be worse per the EPA numbers, but it's about the same with my usage. Being able to drive mildly without wringing my hands about carbon buildup is a game changer.
Shift feel isn't as nice as the RX-8's, but it's somehow much easier to downshift into 2nd without grinding. Not sure how that works, but I'll take it.
Clutch feel is way better -- by which I mean there is some, whereas the RX-8 bafflingly had none whatsoever.
Holy flippin’ hell do I like having a reasonable oil temp gauge instead of a coolant temp dummy gauge.
The community support for the M3 is night-and-day vs. the RX-8. R3s are basically nonexistent, and RX-8 owners with both money and discernment are a rare breed -- with obvious implications for the quality of aftermarket parts and info. The M3 community is a revelation by comparison.
At the same time, because this car is a slicktop sedan with a manual transmission and no iDrive or electronic dampers, I still get to feel like I’m driving something unique even though the community is so much bigger.
Having FCP Euro as a parts source is a quality-of-life upgrade for obvious reasons.
Another quality-of-life upgrade: not having to explain my car choice to anyone. I was getting really tired of dealing with people thinking I drove an unreliable E36 M3box.
And of course being an E90, the M3 has more than a semblance of practicality. With a growing toddler and one more kid on the way, this is going to make a bigger and bigger difference with time.
Verdict (For Now)
I miss driving a car that always felt like it had a goofy E36 M3-eating grin on its face. I do not miss feeling like I had survived long drives rather than enjoyed them.
I miss being able to go WOT to 9000 RPM at will without committing a felony. I do not miss having the torque of an econobox and the throttle response of a slack-filled powertrain.
I miss that extra bit of handling and feel. I do not miss the fact that those were my car’s only real talents, such as they were.
So yeah, I'd prefer something a lot lighter, and I'd prefer 6 cylinders to 8. But that car doesn’t exist in stock 4-door form, barring big compromises. So I think overall, it’s safe to say this is the right car for me now -- just as the R3 was when I got it. The more I drive the M3, the more upsides I find, and the less strongly I feel about the downsides.
Looking forward to seeing how I feel in a year or two. Hopefully there'll be some weight reduction between now and then!