Apexcarver said:
Desk time and long commute led to back injury for me. I have to go to a gym to stay in shape. Don't think a desk job means good health. It's just a different set of problems that need to be managed.
white_fly said:
If you don't know what job you want, maybe you could answer what lifestyle you want and work backwards? I have a great job, but my work is 100% travel and that changes the sort of lifestyle I end up with.
These are some good quotes.
ApexCarver is dead on. I work a chair. During the winter months, when I'm less active, spend less time on my mountain bike, I feel it. Likewise, when I've worked construction jobs, I came home every night completely beat, sore, back aching, but I felt damn good on the weekends. Looked good too.
What white_fly said is important as well. Some people hate travel. I know some guys who are resentful of working jobs where they missed their kids growing up. I know some guys who are resentful of never having made good money, too.
My father made a good impression on me on the value of college as a young person - A Doctor can retire at 40 with a wife, house, kids, etc with more money than he knows what to do with and become a carpenter. It's far harder for a carpenter to become a Doctor at 40 with a wife, house and kids. It's not impossible, but it's harder.
So I decided to leave my path in the trades, one that was very wishy-washy (I had no idea if I wanted to become a mechanic, photographer, tradesperson, whatever) and just get a Bachelors Degree. When your young and single and it's acceptable to live with parents, it's pretty easy to get through school quickly and have fun doing it.
The thought of going back to school as a 34 year old with a wife and kid is daunting. Every person we know with a Master's Degree is strapped for cash, at least those who paid for it themselves (ie not through work reimbursement). The ROI of an advanced degree just doesn't seem worth it to pay out of your own pocket. The only people who aren't paying debt for years after their self-paid graduate degrees are those in health fields or computer science/programming. I have a buddy who got a two-year mechanical technology degree right out of highschool, got into the wind-turbine-repair business, travelled the world, saved up enough money to buy a cheap apartment, and paid for his Mechanical Engineering degree outright. No debt. If you're going to do a trade right of highschool that's the way to do it.
...but for those of us who are older, with families and people who rely on us to support them? That's more tricky. You need a skill that's specialized enough to pay the bills even at entry, but cheap enough to get those skills with minor expenses. You need a skill where employers track you down while you in trade school and say "come work for us we'll pay you $25/hr with a flexible schedule while you finish your certification. Then $35 when you're done."
Go to your local community college, vo-tech or technical school and ask around which programs have employers doing that. Do those programs.