I am turning 33 this year. About 5 years ago I started working a desk job with a long commute and hours that didnt allow me much excersize time. I would still be active on most weekends, but it was ramping down a bit. Last summer I started getting pains in my right leg, especially after I got off the commuter bus. I would have decreased motion in my right leg and not be able to kick it forward very well. (not about to join the rockettes).
Went to the doctor, had an x-ray of my spine. Found that my lumbar curvature was straightening. Made an appointment for Physical Therapy. Before the first appointment, I went on a trip where I spent 10 hours driving my miata over two days. 5 hours a day non-stop. By the time I got home from the trip I was in UNBEARABLE pain. I had to call my wife from the driveway, I couldnt get out of the miata without assistance.
Went into the office once or twice and couldnt make it a whole day. Wound up in severe pain, having to bogart a whole seat and lay down across a row on the bus in tears.
Work allowed me to work from home. I started PT, didnt make any progress for 3 weeks. Had an MRI, they found that I had herniated a disc and it was impinging on the sciatic nerve. No PT options as the spine could destabilize with traction due to the flattening of the curve. See a Neurosurgeon, who tells me that I need to have surgery on my spine, or I risk permanent damage due to pressure on the nerve. Same week, find out wife is pregnant.
Had surgery on my back on Nov 28th. Three months later I finally start working in the office again. Three and a half months later, I am still in 2x a week PT and working hard at improvements, but MUCH better off than before the surgery.
Docs reassure me that I should be in ok shape by the time the baby is here. I still worry a bit. Its going to be at least a year out from surgery for things to get back to close to normal, I will have to wait and see how much lasting effect I have from this mess.
If I had been more proactive and less stupid about taking a long trip with an already bad back condition, it likely could have been corrected with 2 months PT and I could have been in fine shape for christmas. Instead, here I am, late in spring, still recovering from a surgery and desperate to be ready for my sons birth. I am reduced to team lifting heavy items with my pregnant wife as neither of us should really be lifting things over 35lbs right now.
DONT DO WHAT I DID. ENGAGE RELEVANT MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS AND SOLVE BEFORE PRESSING ON.