Listen, I'm under no delusions that I'm not poor. I was born poor and always will be. Why? Because I don't care about money, I don't chase it, I don't have a drive to aquire it. My satisfaction in life comes from doing a good job, making people happy and taking pride in what I do. Everybody in the family is taken care of. We are all fed, we all have new clothes. All the bills are paid on time and we are living a very comfortable life.
I'd like to see anyone try to convince her to sell her reliable, efficient three year old car that still has 50k miles and seven years left on the warranty for an older beater, ha, never going to happen.
Also this is the first job I've had in at least eight years that I've had to work less than 70hours per week. I feel normal again. I feel like a real person, a husband and a father. Not someone who just visits for a while at night and is never seen until the next night. No sir, I'm more than happy with my 42 hours a week. I have no need for a second job.
The only debt we have is a small hospital bill, my bike and her car. Wether the bike sells or not we'll be fine. We certainly are not in a drastically desperate situation like many of you think. It may be uncomfortable for some of you but it's just life for us.
And no matter what no FWD, fords or anything Japanese will darken my doorstep. A man has to have standards
T.J.
UltimaDork
7/27/15 1:21 p.m.
Nick_Comstock wrote:
. A man has to have standards
Yeah, down with automatics!
By ruling out FWD you are pretty much ruling out hatchbacks, at least newer ones.
In reply to T.J.:
I may lower my standards for an Abarth, but that's it.
What about a Fiesta of some kind? They're 'Murican and everything
What's the point of this tread again?
In reply to pres589:
I realized that I didn't want to give up a bike for a car. But finances mean that to get a car I have to.
tuna55
UltimaDork
7/27/15 2:51 p.m.
Nick_Comstock wrote:
And no matter what no FWD, fords or anything Japanese will darken my doorstep. A man has to have standards
This is the problem.
You can't admit that you're poor and then dismiss the obvious choice from an economic point of view (an older Japanese FWD econobox). You're still kidding yourself. Stop trying to maximize your buying dollar by buying more car than you can really afford. Yeah, a full size Chevy truck may make you happier, but trucks are way more expensive to purchase and to feed.
oh, and even I don't have new clothes. The shirt I am wearing right now is from the Miracle Hill store.
tuna55
UltimaDork
7/27/15 3:03 p.m.
Nick_Comstock wrote:
In reply to Mike:
Perfect.
Yes, because what you need in this situation is a $2000 car which will immediately require $1000 of deferred maintenance which you also can't afford and be more expensive to feed than what you currently own.
Ok, by your list of requirements, S-10.
In reply to tuna55:
To what end are you trying to lead me toward?
Nobody is starving, nobody is going without anything.
mtn
MegaDork
7/27/15 3:07 p.m.
Here is a legitmate question: Lets say that you have a car (any car) and a cheap 250 bike. Which one are you on more, including kid duties?
In reply to Datsun1500:
It certainly was, it was what was required of me by my employers. What they paid me didn't matter as long as the bills got paid.
mtn
MegaDork
7/27/15 3:16 p.m.
Nick_Comstock wrote:
mtn wrote:
Here is a legitmate question: Lets say that you have a car (any car) and a cheap 250 bike. Which one are you on more, including kid duties?
The bike.
So why not get an appliance, appease the wife, and use it only for kiddo hauling purposes?
Nick_Comstock wrote:
We certainly are not in a drastically desperate situation like many of you think.
You are giving yourself too much credit. With zero spare income and upside down on 1 (or more) loans, you are only a small hiccup away from a 'quick and dramatic' change to serious financial problems.
In reply to ProDarwin:
Always have been. The most money I've ever had in my hands at one time was 1500 and that was before I met my wife so about 13 years ago.
The boy will be eight in September.
http://killeen.craigslist.org/cto/5136993063.html
Problem solved. Everyone can use a cheap truck.
mtn
MegaDork
7/27/15 4:08 p.m.
Nick_Comstock wrote:
In reply to ProDarwin:
Always have been. The most money I've ever had in my hands at one time was 1500 and that was before I met my wife so about 13 years ago.
The boy will be eight in September.
Ever had in your hands, or ever had in your account and not already delegated to something else (i.e. I have $3000 in my account, but $2500 of that is already spent on rent due in a week, student loans due in two, and my credit card due in 3 days)?
http://dallas.craigslist.org/dal/cto/5128275851.html