After much deliberation, the Mrs. and I have decided that moving will give us everything that we want in a house. Then we decided that we love our neighborhood too much to ever move. Then we decided to add onto the front of our house. Then the rear. Then to move again. Then to add a second floor. Or maybe not. ARGGHHHH! So where we are today is we know what we want in the house, and think we know how to get it. If it were up to me, I would just start cutting and ordering trusses, but she's understandably NOT ok with that.
We talked to contractors, and the general response was "yeah, that will cost a lot more than you think and your doing it wrong and I'd do it differently, blah blah blah." So we talked to architects and they said "that's can't be done, I'd do it differently, how about this expensive idea that doesn't meet your needs?" ARRRGGGHHH!!!!
I don't know what to do next. What I want is pretty simple, it's called popping the top on a ranch. Cut off 60% of the existing roof, a second story on that part, cap with new roof. Its a simple rectangle, how hard can that be? Then divide that space into a few rooms, rough in plumbing and electrical and HVAC, hang drywall, add windows and siding, it can't be that difficult or expensive. Hell, I'll do trim, paint, bathroom fixtures, etc. The new space allows us to re-flow the first floor to open up some space, again no big deal, take down a wall, move a doorway. Easy.
How do I find someone to say "Oh wow, that sounds great! With your budget, here's what we can do to get you to your goals."