Duke said:
Yep. We worked for da man and saved 10% as soon as we could. As our expenses went down, we worked our way up to 25%. Nearly all of that went into 401ks of various flavors.
DW's employer had a pension program but they discontinued that maybe halfway through her career in favor of 401ks. So that's maybe $25k per year.
Never invested in real estate because I have zero interest in being a landlord.
Over the various years we did inherit a modest sum from my parents, but not a truly significant amount. Most of it we just did the old fashioned, butt simple way of putting it directly away before we could think of it as spendable.
It's remarkable how similar our stories are.
We had no plan to, but I did have an interest in being a landlord. I inherited a strong entrepreneurial spirit from my Dad's side of the family, and when the opportunity was presented, I became a landlord. I also said I'd never do it again, but I think I would, I would just do it differently, as the income was pretty good.
In any successful endeavour there's always some luck involved, but to some degree you can create your own.
On our first house, when rates dropped after a few years we renegotiated, paid a small penalty, and kept the payment the same. Every six months I bumped the payment up by what I could afford, sometimes only $20. Ten years in, and in really good shape our 82 yr old neighbour approached us, said he could no longer maintain it, and wanted us to buy his farm. He liked us and thought we would look after it. It was a lot of money and a huge decision. I asked my smartest friend for advice. If you can borrow against your place for the down payment, and keep both, it's a no brainer. In hindsight it was a no brainer anyway, but we didn't realize it at the time. It wasn't easy, but we pulled it off, rented one out for ten years, and when we sold it took that money and put it on the farm mortgage.
Being in that situation was pure luck, but some good decisions made early on put us in a position to take advantage of it.